Or instead of pink and frilly I could go with...

Baby Punk wear. There are some great onesies and t-shirts out there like: Found at ,a href="http://www.tshirthell.com/babyhell.shtml">Baby Hell. Or this one: found at Baby Wit. For the timid on the outside, but punk on the inside you could go with the edgy but safe: found at My Punk Baby. I think a healthy mix of both is in order.